The Taoist philosopher Chuang Tzu said, "I once dreamt that I was a butterfly— now I don't know if I'm a man who dreamt he was a butterfly or if I am a butterfly dreaming that I am a man." We all go through times of uncertainty when we feel unclear about who we are and what we are supposed to do in this life. During these times of inner or outer unsettledness, we are tempted to try to find a quick solution or answer to resolve our uncertain feelings. Yet the way of wisdorn may be to relax and realize that we may just be going through a time of inner reassessment. If we are too anxious to arrive at a conclusive answer to our situation, we may not give our innermost being a chance to unfold in a natural way. There is a process of inner realization that brings forth a solution in its own time and its own way if we but let it. When you feel insecure, relax and let your inner self bring forth your solution which will always be the right solution for you.