Social distancing is not isolation, neither is it withdraw. As the Pandemic surges through the summer, we are being warned that it is likely to continue through the fall. Beyond that, we really do not know, but even with an initial vaccine, it is likely that social distancing will continue for awhile to some degree. It is all speculation at this point. For now, if we want to safeguard our health and do our part in slowing down the virus, while resuming a more active life outside our shelter, we learn to navigate social distancing and face masks. In someways, these first 4 - 5 months have been experimental, a process of learning how to manage what is needed. We have gained experience, but this is a huge cultural shift for Americans. Many still refuse the shift.
I have been thinking about this since going on a family outing last weekend to a large county park that has remained open. Given the escalation of the virus in L.A. county, and the mandates, I was shocked to see large numbers of people without masks and without regard for physical distancing. I am used to encountering neighborhood walkers and runners without masks, but in general they maintain physical distance. I make it a point of spiritual practice to observe my own reactions as I walk, and I've chosen to take the lead in giving a lot of space to those also out on the streets. They are neighbors; there is no need on either part to feed resentment.
However, as I watched the groups of "strangers" in the park, I found myself having to stretch to find the same attitude of deference. Yet, I know on a spiritual level, there is nothing to be gained by participating in polarization, or judgment, or even my interpretation of why some people adapt to the change and others resist or ignore the need. Finally, I found a way to relax into the day (with lots of open green grass available) and decided to trust my instincts while maneuvering around cars and bicyclists, party groups and families. I realized I don't have to carry the burden of outcome for all the people I watched. We are all participants in this phenomenal movement of life in this time of Pandemic, and all aspects of the One Life. We do what we can, and let go. (Susan Nettleton)